Discover how to transform your relationship with yourself and others through emotional awareness, compassionate communication, and authentic connections.
“Love is not about finding the perfect person. It’s about seeing an imperfect person perfectly.”
In a world of fleeting connections and surface-level interactions, do you find yourself longing for something deeper? Something real?
The truth is, lasting love doesn’t begin with finding the right person—it begins with becoming the right person. It starts within.
Whether you’re healing from past relationships, navigating current challenges, or simply wanting to love more authentically, this book offers the wisdom and practical tools to help you cultivate the most important relationship of all: the one with yourself.
“The Wisdom of Lasting Love” is part of the Heads-Up Learning – Love & Growth Series, blending relatable storytelling with psychology-backed insights and practical exercises.
Follow John and Lina as they navigate their individual journeys toward self-discovery with the guidance of Coach Dave Anders. Through their stories, you’ll witness the transformation that occurs when we turn inward before reaching outward.
This isn’t just another relationship book—it’s an experiential guide that helps you:
“Love isn’t something we fall into. It’s something we grow into—one honest conversation, one brave act of self-reflection, one healed wound at a time.”
The Wisdom of Lasting Love: A Practical Guide to Cultivating Self-Love and Love for Others is a soul-deep journey into the emotional truths that sustain love over time
Learn why loving yourself isn't selfish—it's essential for healthy relationships. Discover practical ways to cultivate self-worth and inner security.
Master the art of expressing needs and listening with empathy. Transform conflicts into opportunities for deeper connection.
Identify your emotional triggers and patterns. Develop the ability to respond rather than react in challenging situations.
Learn what it means to give from abundance rather than scarcity. Cultivate interdependence while maintaining personal boundaries.
Transform past wounds into wisdom. Discover how your personal growth journey enhances all your relationships.
Learn the art of building love that lasts—not through perfection, but through presence, purpose, and mutual growth.
Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this book meets you where you are and guides you toward deeper connection—starting with yourself.
You just need to be willing.
To listen.
To grow.
To come home to yourself—then offer your heart from that sacred place.
The relationship experts who created this transformative approach
Everly Hartwell & Ashton Grey are emotional intelligence educators and co-creators of the "Love & Growth" series, dedicated to helping couples build lasting bonds through real-world tools and psychological insight. With over a decade of combined experience in relationship counseling, narrative therapy, and emotional wellness coaching, they bring compassion and clarity to every page. Everly's compassionate approach has helped thousands rebuild their lives.
Ashton brings cutting-edge research on resilience and post-traumatic growth. His work focuses on transforming emotional pain into personal power and renewed purpose.
NB: In addition to our individual expertise, we utilized the power of AI where appropriate to streamline the content creation process.
This book changed how I view myself and relationships. The blend of storytelling and practical exercises made the concepts come alive.
Healing from divorce
I’ve read dozens of relationship books, but none have touched me like this one. The focus on self-love first was revolutionary for me.
Single, seeking meaningful connection
My partner and I read this together and it transformed our communication. We’re now having conversations we avoided for years.
Together 7 years
“Every chapter gently invited me to see where I’d been settling—and showed me how to rise into something truer.”
Recovering from divorce
Recovering from divorce
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“This book felt like a mirror. I didn’t just learn how to love others better—I finally saw how to love myself in ways I never knew I needed.”
Emotional wellness coach
Emotional wellness coach
“John and Lina’s stories were so real and healing. I cried, I journaled, I grew.”
Reader and newly engaged
Your journey to deeper self-understanding and meaningful connections begins here.
Everything you need to know before starting your Heartbreak Reset
A:The Wisdom of Lasting Love is designed to resonate with readers regardless of spiritual background. While it acknowledges the deeper dimensions of love and connection, it presents concepts in a way that’s accessible and practical for everyone. The focus is on universal human experiences of love, growth, and connection.
A: Not at all! In fact, this book is especially powerful for those who are single. The foundation of all lasting love is self-love and emotional awareness, which you can cultivate regardless of relationship status. Many readers find that doing this inner work prepares them to attract and maintain healthier relationships when the time is right.
A: Absolutely. The book is designed to meet you where you are, whether you’re just beginning your personal growth journey or have been on this path for years. The storytelling approach makes complex concepts easy to understand, while the reflection exercises allow you to go as deep as you’re ready for.
You’ll receive immediate access to the digital eBook (PDF). The whole series will be available in paperback shortly.
Yes! Each chapter includes prompts, affirmations, takeaways, and guided reflections you can begin using immediately.
Unlike many relationship guides that focus on changing your partner or finding “the one,” this book emphasizes personal transformation as the foundation for all healthy relationships. The unique blend of narrative storytelling with practical exercises creates an engaging, immersive learning experience that goes beyond theoretical advice.
Your journey to lasting love begins with a single step. Take that step today.