Distance Doesn't Have to Mean
Disconnection
Discover how to transform physical separation into emotional closeness with "So Far, So Close"
Turn miles into moments. Rebuild connection, trust, and intimacy—no matter the distance.
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Does This Sound Familiar?
💔 The unique challenges of loving someone from afar
You miss the sound of their laugh in real life.
The way they reach for your hand.
The comfort of knowing you can close the space between you with a hug.
Time Zone Struggles
Trying to sync schedules when you're waking up as they're going to bed, missing those precious moments to connect.
Miscommunication
Texts that fall flat, video calls that feel forced, and the constant worry that tone gets lost in translation.
Emotional Drift
That sinking feeling that you're growing apart, even though you're both trying so hard to stay close.
What Makes This Book Outstanding?
So Far, So Close is a story-driven relationship guide for anyone navigating the challenges of long-distance love—whether romantic, familial, or friendship-based.
Through the lives of Zoe and Felipe, you’ll see the struggles you know all too well: the missed moments, the longing, the doubts, and the unexpected victories.
"So Far, So Close" is your guide to:
- Turn physical distance into emotional closeness
- Build trust and intimacy despite the miles between you
- Navigate time zones, miscommunication, and loneliness with confidence
- Create meaningful connection rituals that work for your unique relationship
- Communicate with clarity and warmth (even across time zones)
- Grow as individuals—while growing together
With the guidance of Coach Dave Anders, you’ll learn how to turn your LDR into a space for deeper connection, emotional resilience, and authentic communication.
What You'll Learn
🔐 What You’ll Gain Together
Practical strategies to strengthen your bond across any distance
Build Emotional Intimacy
Discover how to create deep emotional connection without physical proximity, using intentional communication techniques and vulnerability exercises.
Navigate Time Zone Challenges
Learn practical scheduling strategies and creative ways to maintain connection when you're living in different time zones or have conflicting schedules.
Master Long-Distance Communication
Go beyond texting and video calls with innovative communication methods that prevent misunderstandings and keep conversations meaningful.
Manage Insecurity & Jealousy
Develop tools to handle the natural insecurities that arise in long-distance relationships, building trust and confidence in your connection.
Create Meaningful Connection Rituals
Establish special routines and traditions that give your relationship structure and anticipation, making the distance feel smaller.
Stay Grounded in Yourself
Avoid losing your identity in the waiting and longing. Know when to hold on—and when to let go gracefully
growing through it.
Who This Book Is For
Whether you’re in a romantic relationship or maintaining other important connections across distance
Romantic Relationships
- Couples separated by work, school, or military service
- International relationships spanning different countries
- Those preparing for a temporary separation
- Partners navigating the transition from in-person to long-distance
Non-Romantic Relationships
- Close friends living in different cities or countries
- Family members separated by distance
- Those maintaining important mentor/mentee relationships remotely
- Anyone who wants to strengthen connections despite physical separation
Meet The Authors
The relationship experts who created this transformative approach
Relationship Therapist & Author!
Everly Hartwell
Everly Hartwell & Ashton Grey are emotional intelligence educators and co-creators of the "Love & Growth" series, dedicated to helping couples build lasting bonds through real-world tools and psychological insight. With over a decade of combined experience in relationship counseling, narrative therapy, and emotional wellness coaching, they bring compassion and clarity to every page. Everly's compassionate approach has helped thousands rebuild their lives.
Positive Psychology Expert!
Ashton Grey
Ashton brings cutting-edge research on resilience and post-traumatic growth. His work focuses on transforming emotional pain into personal power and renewed purpose.
NB: In addition to our individual expertise, we utilized the power of AI where appropriate to streamline the content creation process.
Together They've Helped Thousands of People
Everly Hartwell & Ashton Grey are relationship growth guides with a mission: to help people love deeper and grow stronger.
People Healed
5000
+
Bestselling Books
Years Experience
5
+
Success Rate
50
What Readers Are Saying
“This book saved my relationship. The communication strategies helped us go from constant misunderstandings to feeling closer than ever, despite being 5,000 miles apart.”
☆☆☆☆☆ Rated 5 out of 5
Sarah J. 2-year LDR, USA to UK
“The chapter on creating connection rituals completely changed how my partner and I approach our time apart. We now have special ways to connect that make the distance feel smaller.”
★★★★★ Rated 4.5 out of 5
Michael T. Military spouse
“I was skeptical at first, but the storytelling approach made the lessons stick. I found myself recognizing my own relationship in Zoe and Felipe’s journey.”
★★★★★ Rated 5 out of 5
Patrick K. College student in LDR
“Even though my best friend and I aren’t romantic partners, this book helped us maintain our close friendship across continents. The principles apply to all kinds of relationships.”
★★★★★ Rated 5 out of 5
David L. Long-distance friendship
“This series feels like having a wise friend walk you through the hardest parts of love—and celebrate the best parts, too.”
☆☆☆☆☆ Rated 4.5 out of 5
— Reader of The ABCs of Successful Relationships
“Zoe and Felipe’s story could have been ours. We’ve already started using the conversation prompts, and it’s changed how we connect.”
☆☆☆☆☆ Rated 5 out of 5
Tara W., Reader
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Your Questions Answered
Everything you need to know about “So Far, So Close”
A: Absolutely! While the book focuses primarily on romantic relationships, the principles apply to all types of important connections – friendships, family relationships, and mentor/mentee relationships. The core strategies for maintaining emotional closeness despite physical distance are universal.
A: The book includes an entire chapter dedicated to navigating time zone challenges, with specific strategies for couples with significant time differences. You’ll learn how to create meaningful connection points despite the challenges, and even how to turn the time difference into an advantage for your relationship.
A: “So Far, So Close” takes a unique story-driven approach, following two characters through their long-distance journey with guidance from a relationship coach. This makes the lessons more memorable and relatable than traditional advice books. Additionally, the book focuses not just on surviving the distance, but on using it as an opportunity for deeper emotional growth and connection.
A: The book includes specific chapters addressing common challenges like emotional drift, communication breakdowns, and rebuilding trust. Many readers have found that implementing even a few of the strategies helped turn their struggling long-distance relationship around. However, the book also provides compassionate guidance for knowing when to let go if that’s healthiest for both partners.
A: You’ll receive immediate access to the digital eBook (PDF). The whole series will be available in paperback shortly.
A: Many readers report feeling more hopeful and connected after just the first few chapters. Some strategies (like the communication techniques) can improve your relationship immediately, while others (like building trust rituals) develop over time. The book is designed to provide both quick wins and long-term transformation.
Ready to Protect What Matters Most?
Distance is Just Geography
Your relationship can grow stronger, deeper, and more meaningful – no matter how many miles separate you.