Want Stronger, Healthier Relationships That Actually Last?
Master the A-to-Z Foundations of Meaningful, Fulfilling Connections—Romantic, Platonic, or Family-Based with The ABCs of Successful Relationships.
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Does This Sound Familiar?
đź’” Feeling More Like Roommates Than Partners?
You love them. But sometimes, it feels like you’re speaking different languages.
Maybe you keep having the same fights.
Or conversations that end in silence… or worse, emotional distance.
Maybe you’re tired of walking on eggshells, feeling unseen, or giving more than you get.
If you’re feeling exhausted by miscommunication, trust issues, or the fear that your relationship isn’t built to last—you’re not alone. Millions face the same challenges every day.
However, there’s a better way to relate.
And it starts with three simple things: Awareness. Balance. Connection.
Communication Breakdown
Every conversation turns into an argument or leaves you feeling misunderstood and frustrated.
Emotional Distance
You feel lonely even when you're together, craving deeper connection but not knowing how to create it.
Repeating Patterns
The same conflicts keep resurfacing, leaving you stuck in a cycle you can't seem to break.
Transform Your Relationships With This Simple A-to-Z Framework
"The ABCs of Successful Relationships" provides a clear, step-by-step blueprint for building and maintaining healthy, fulfilling connections in all areas of your life. Through relatable storytelling and practical exercises, you'll discover how to create relationships that are built on awareness, balance, and genuine connection.
“A house is only as strong as its foundation. This book helps you build stable, resilient, and fulfilling relationships from the ground up.”
What Makes This Book Different?
Relatable Storytelling
Follow John and Cindy's journey as they navigate relationship challenges with Coach Amy's guidance.
Psychology-Backed Insights
Learn the science behind healthy relationships in accessible, practical terms.
Actionable Exercises
Apply what you learn immediately with reflection prompts and practical strategies.
Holistic Approach
Covers all relationship types - romantic, family, friendships - with universal principles.
"The ABCs of Successful Relationships"
What You'll Learn
Practical tools, mindset shifts, and relationship-building habits covered in the book
The Relationship Blueprint
Understand the fundamental structure of healthy relationships and how to assess your current foundation.
Emotional Intelligence Tools
Develop self-awareness and learn to navigate emotions—both yours and your partner's—with skill and compassion.
Relationship Dynamics
Recognize unhealthy patterns and learn how to create positive interactions that strengthen your bond.
Trust & Vulnerability
Build emotional safety and learn how to open up in ways that deepen intimacy without fear of judgment.
Conflict Resolution
Transform arguments into opportunities for connection with proven communication techniques.
Lasting Love Strategies
Keep your relationship thriving through life's changes with rituals and practices that maintain emotional continuity.
🎯 Who is This Book For?
Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this book will help you create more meaningful connections.
- New Couples: Build a strong foundation from the start and avoid common pitfalls.
- Long-Term Partners: Reignite the spark and deepen your emotional connection.
- Healing from Breakups: Understand what went wrong and prepare for healthier future relationships.
- Emotional Connection: Wanting to reconnect with a partner, friend, or family member
- All Relationship Types Improve family dynamics, friendships, and professional relationships.
What Readers Are Saying
- “The ABCs framework gave us a way to talk again—without blame.” — Aisha & Logan, together 8 years
- “The storytelling made the ideas hit home. I saw myself in John and Cindy. I cried. Then I grew.” — Renée, book club facilitator
Meet The Authors
The relationship experts who created this transformative approach
Relationship Therapist & Author!
Everly Hartwell
Everly Hartwell & Ashton Grey are emotional intelligence educators and co-creators of the "Love & Growth" series, dedicated to helping couples build lasting bonds through real-world tools and psychological insight. With over a decade of combined experience in relationship counseling, narrative therapy, and emotional wellness coaching, they bring compassion and clarity to every page. Everly's compassionate approach has helped thousands rebuild their lives.
Positive Psychology Expert!
Ashton Grey
Ashton brings cutting-edge research on resilience and post-traumatic growth. His work focuses on transforming emotional pain into personal power and renewed purpose.
NB: In addition to our individual expertise, we utilized the power of AI where appropriate to streamline the content creation process.
Together They've Helped Thousands of People
Everly Hartwell & Ashton Grey are relationship growth guides with a mission: to help people love deeper and grow stronger.
People Healed
5000
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Bestselling Books
Years Experience
5
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Success Rate
50
What Readers Are Saying
“This book changed everything for my marriage. The communication techniques alone were worth ten times the price. We went from constant arguments to truly understanding each other.”
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☆☆☆☆☆ Rated 5 out of 5
Tara J. Married 7 years
“As a therapist, I rarely recommend books to clients, but this one is exceptional. The ABC framework makes complex concepts accessible and actionable. I’ve seen remarkable transformations.”
★★★★★ Rated 4.5 out of 5
Dr. Michael T. Licensed Therapist
“After my divorce, I was terrified of repeating the same mistakes. This book helped me heal and gave me tools to create healthier relationships. My current partnership is night-and-day different.”
★★★★★ Rated 5 out of 5
Jennifer L. Single Parent
Ready to Transform Your Relationships?
For Your Heart, Mind And Soul
Join thousands of readers who have discovered the power of the ABC framework to create deeper, more fulfilling connections.
FAQ – You Might Be Wondering…
Everything you need to know before getting started.
A: Not at all! While many examples focus on romantic partnerships, the principles apply to all relationships—family, friendships, and professional connections. The ABC framework is universal.
A: You can still make significant improvements by applying the principles yourself. Many readers report positive changes in their relationships even when they’re the only ones implementing what they learn.
A: Absolutely! The book is designed to meet you where you are. Whether you’re new to relationship books or have read many, the clear ABC framework makes it easy to understand and apply.
A: Unlike books that focus on quick fixes or just one aspect of relationships, this provides a comprehensive, structured approach through the ABC framework. The combination of storytelling, psychology, and practical exercises creates a unique learning experience.
A: Nope. Each book stands alone. But if you love this one, the Love & Growth Series has powerful next steps.
You’ll receive immediate access to the digital eBook (PDF). The whole series will be available in paperback shortly.
“The ABCs of Successful Relationships” is based on psychological research and clinical experience rather than any religious or philosophical framework. The tools are practical and applicable regardless of your spiritual beliefs. That’s also true for all the other books in the “Love & Growth” series.
Ready to Build What Matters Most?
Love Deeper. Grow Stronger.
Relationships aren’t built by luck. They’re shaped by the emotional work we’re willing to do.
This book is your blueprint.
One brick, one boundary, one breakthrough at a time.