Practical tools to reignite passion, deepen emotional intimacy, and grow together—not apart—as your relationship evolves, and Fall in Love All Over Again.
“We love each other, but the spark just isn’t what it used to be…”
“We’ve become more like roommates than passionate partners…”
“I miss the excitement and deep connection we once had…”
You’re not alone. Nearly 80% of long-term couples experience this emotional drift. But here’s the good news: passion doesn’t have to fade—it can evolve into something even more meaningful.
Unlike generic relationship advice, we combine science-backed strategies with real couple’s journey—so you see exactly how transformation happens.
Follow Mark & Elena's journey with coach Amy—see real struggles and breakthroughs that mirror your own.
Evidence-based exercises that create real change, not just temporary fixes.
Practical rituals and conversation starters you can use tonight to begin reconnecting.
It feels like a conversation with someone who truly gets it—It blends real-life storytelling with psychology-backed coaching, self-reflection prompts, and immediately usable strategies.
The relationship experts who created this transformative approach
Everly Hartwell & Ashton Grey are emotional intelligence educators and co-creators of the "Love & Growth" series, dedicated to helping couples build lasting bonds through real-world tools and psychological insight. With over a decade of combined experience in relationship counseling, narrative therapy, and emotional wellness coaching, they bring compassion and clarity to every page. Everly's compassionate approach has helped thousands rebuild their lives.
Ashton brings cutting-edge research on resilience and post-traumatic growth. His work focuses on transforming emotional pain into personal power and renewed purpose.
NB: In addition to our individual expertise, we utilized the power of AI where appropriate to streamline the content creation process.
“After 7 years together, we were going through the motions. This book gave us the tools to reconnect on levels we didn’t even realize were possible. The ‘Daily Intimacy Habits’ chapter alone transformed our marriage.”
“The ‘Spark Equation’ framework helped us understand why our chemistry had changed after kids. We’re now more connected than we were in our honeymoon phase—but in a deeper, more meaningful way.”
“Following Mark & Elena’s journey made us feel seen. The reflection prompts led to conversations we’d avoided for years. This isn’t just a book—it’s therapy in written form.”
Reconnect, rebuild, and reignite the love that still lives between you.
Everything you need to know before getting started.
A: While the book addresses common challenges in long-term relationships, it’s not designed as a crisis intervention. If you’re dealing with infidelity, abuse, or serious trust violations, we recommend seeking professional counseling first. This book is ideal for couples who feel disconnected but still have a foundation of love and respect to build upon.
A: Many readers successfully apply the principles individually first. The storytelling format makes it easy to share key insights with your partner naturally in conversation. Often, seeing positive changes in you sparks their curiosity to engage more
A: Many couples report feeling more connected within days of implementing the communication tools and daily rituals. Deeper transformation typically unfolds over 4-8 weeks as you work through the material together. Remember—you didn’t drift apart overnight, so rebuilding takes consistent effort.
A: Keeping the Spark Alive combines coaching, storytelling, and neuroscience-backed intimacy exercises. It’s not just theory—it’s transformation through practical, human stories.
A: Absolutely. The chapters are bite-sized, actionable, and emotionally engaging—perfect for busy lives. Additionally, the bonus Toolkit breaks down activities into 5–to 15–minute steps.
You’ll receive immediate access to the digital eBook (PDF). The whole series will be available in paperback shortly.
“Keeping the Spark Alive” is based on psychological research and clinical experience rather than any religious or philosophical framework. The tools are practical and applicable regardless of your spiritual beliefs. That’s also true for all the other books in the “Love & Growth” series.
A: Not at all. In fact, the book is designed for couples who have shared years together—and shows you how to leverage your history to deepen connection, not drift apart.
Passion doesn’t fade because love is broken. It fades when we stop nurturing it.
This book is your step-by-step guide to tending the flame—together.
Because lasting love isn’t about luck—it’s about learning how to love deeper, every day.